Yea We Said It

Just something for the ladies to think about as they travel abroad….
The Women Have Spoken: Brazilian Men Are Second Best in Bed, German Men Worst
 By OBERT MADONDO
This one is for my single female friends who are seriously looking and want nothing but the best between the sheets: avoid especially German and English men. Shoot for [...]

I am having a “mad as hell” moment right now and I thought I would post these lyrics, because it is exactly how I feel. Thank you Deborah Cox!
“Did You Ever Love Me”
Heartfelt conversations we had every single night, lying in bed together,
So why would there ever be a breakdown in communication,
And I’m just wondering [...]

I just threw my books  How to Love a Black Man and Act Like a Lady and Think Like a Man away. I know these books are what most single women refer to when they want to get things right when the past did not work out the way that they wanted it to. The truth [...]

This is a response to all the previous posts about the trials and tribulations of independent, educated black women. I thought I would turn in the direction that I always do in times where I feel that women are making too many “excuses”. It is so easy to blame others for your shortcomings in life. I mean, [...]

So I’ve been told that my last post sparked a lot of interesting debate. Good.  I think it’s a debate that should continue. I did not post it to depress high achieving black women (I feel I fall into that category), but to get us to think about our choices and options when it comes [...]

Saw this article on MSNBC and found it interesting. I’m surprised that they’re paying attention to this issue, but glad that some research is being done. What are your thoughts?
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/32379727/ns/health-sexual_health/from/ET

So I was on the infamous facebook yesterday and there was a guy who asked the question does size really matter to the ladies. I was interested in reading the responses from ladies willing to share. I’ve been told on more than one occasion I view sex differently than most females. Guess they were right.  [...]

We have all had at least one relationship…I hope. I was just listening to Chrisette Michelle and she was speaking some real shit with her song Blame It On Me. When you are in love with a person, once the words are spoken that the relationship is over the relationship just doesn’t end. If you [...]

Three words that instantly piss me off. It just happened. Words that are used by every man and woman at least once in their dating lives. My issue is that what may have once been okay to say ( it just happened your freshman year one night after having 3 shouldn’t shots led you to believe that person [...]

Ok, I know that has been a while since the women spoke up, but I can say that sometimes  we have to take a step back from life and get perspective and evaluate if we are on the right path to where we want to go. When you think back on life you can’t help [...]